Knowledge is Key to play Safe

Being into BDSM there are plenty of different “plays” that you might like to get involved with. As I say the lifestyle can be mental, physical or both so whatever you like to get involved with there is a big requirement of knowledge in order to play safe. Doing the x what impact has to your partners body and the z what impact is going to have to their mental-emotional status? So let us check a “map”  Continue reading “Knowledge is Key to play Safe”

Love and pain, love and torture (picture gallery of what I like)

Many times I think to write about all the things I like to do sexually to my sub, how I love to sweet torture her however we all know that a picture is like a thousand words. So this post is mostly a small sample of plays that I find interesting though I know some or plenty of them may possibly not be of the likes of the sub I am waiting in my life. Continue reading “Love and pain, love and torture (picture gallery of what I like)”

BDSM is about TRUST and RESPECT. It is a lifestyle based on two major pillars. TRUST and RESPECT

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There is a great myth about BDSM and according to this myth our lifestyle is an abusive and weird lifestyle that is only about whips, chains and torture! For sure it may involve all these and even more but the core of it is about trust and respect. In many activities, trust has to overcome the fears and insecurities of the individual, something that has the capacity to make the scene feel incredibly intimate and erotic. Respect is an essential element to reinforce that trust. I believe that respect from the Dominant side and trust from the submissive side are the two main pillars within a BDSM relationship. Of course there will also be trust from the Dominant Continue reading “BDSM is about TRUST and RESPECT. It is a lifestyle based on two major pillars. TRUST and RESPECT”