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Humiliation is Respect

Humiliation is strong within BDSM and many times misunderstood from many depending on their level of knowledge regarding the lifestyle and personal experiences. I am not planning to take it to a social or psychological level but keep it as simple as possible in order to help more people understand my point. It is my strong belief we need to explain things in a simple way as this can help more and more people even if they Continue reading “Humiliation is Respect”

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Knowledge is Key to play Safe

Being into BDSM there are plenty of different “plays” that you might like to get involved with. As I say the lifestyle can be mental, physical or both so whatever you like to get involved with there is a big requirement of knowledge in order to play safe. Doing the x what impact has to your partners body and the z what impact is going to have to their mental-emotional status? So let us check a “map”  Continue reading “Knowledge is Key to play Safe”

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Keep calm and walk her

For my regular readers this post’s title is quite straight forward. For those who read me first time it might sound puzzling if you are not into petplay. I am really fond of petplay and mostly into puppy play. I love to see my sub as my pet, with a collar, a leash and even a nice tail though I am not into furries.  There is a strange way this works inside me and actually it is in a very contradicting way which I will explain below. Continue reading “Keep calm and walk her”

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Happy Kinky 2017

Hello everyone, my best wishes for a great 2017 and even more for a real kinky and exciting 2017. As the year starts we all set some goals personal and professional. It is a new start of 365 new opportunities until the end of the year and same as with everything new we need to take things slowly in order to make steady steps on the effort to achieve every single of our goals.  Continue reading “Happy Kinky 2017”

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Is BDSM Deviant?

BDSM is a taboo in our society all over the world. No matter what the cultural background is and which side of the planet you come from you will agree on the previous statement. My feeling is mostly because BDSM is categorised as deviant, pervert and sick. Quite frankly I find a lot more pervert a sick to have sex on the same way every single time with the same woman to the point that I find no longer interest in getting sexual but still claim I have a happy healthy life. What most people miss in my own opinion is that sex mostly is mental the then physical Continue reading “Is BDSM Deviant?”

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BDSM – A so Different lifestyke that is not that Different after all

You might find surprising the title of that article because I am quite sure most of you consider BDSM a lifestyle very different from the vanilla. I will explain here my own belief that in fact this lifestyle is not that different from the usual one and in fact is a lot more demanding. Indeed it is a lot more demanding in dedication, honesty, devotion, openness and companionship. However we need to see our world from the vanilla perspective and mostly if one who knows nothing try to research it over the web. What is the impression they will get? Let us take it step by step from here Continue reading “BDSM – A so Different lifestyke that is not that Different after all”