Sexual McCarthyism

You can find plenty of things to envy in America but not the “moral panic” emerging from time to time. After the Salem Chapel of the 17th century, after the Mccarthyism of the 1950s, today another hysteria is taking over the USA moving slowly to Europe as well: the panic of sexual harassment. Continue reading “Sexual McCarthyism”

Submissive or Girlfriend?

I believe the answer in this question is mostly personal interpretation and not a subject of some rule or “lifestyle must”. However I do believe there is a great misunderstanding which I would like to explain. Apparently my approach is based on my personal preference which can be simply described by submissive girlfriend.  Continue reading “Submissive or Girlfriend?”

Age Difference in Relationships

Hello all,

It has been quite some time since I last posted something on my blog and today that arrived back in London from my summer holidays thought to upload an update. Nothing major or big as I do believe the information available on the blog are enough for everyone who wishes to do a research about the lifestyle. What is really in my mind and would like to share with you my thoughts is age gap in a relationship.  Continue reading “Age Difference in Relationships”

Not part of the community

This is possibly my last post as I don’t think I will keep updating this blog anymore and to be fair the past year (couple of years) I am not keeping up with updates that well. I might post an article now and then however I don’t see the reason to claim this blog is active anymore. In the same way I can’t consider myself part of the BDSM community anymore. Not that I turned vanilla or that with a magical way my fetishes and kinks are not there anymore. Quite the opposite but the way the community develops can’t make me say I am one of them.  Continue reading “Not part of the community”

Does a Dominant grows more dominative?

Recently I’ve been involved in a discussion coming from a submissive questioning if she should expect a Dom to become more dominative when their relationship becomes stronger or it makes more sense he will get softer. It is indeed a valid question and I find the topic really interesting so I thought to post an article  Continue reading “Does a Dominant grows more dominative?”

The submissive way

Recently I had a chat with a friend who is a submissive talking about her thoughts regarding a Dom who most likely is shy or at least appears as one. During our chat she stated that she will go for him and make the first move if she has to but questioned if this is truly the submissive way. Now I think this is a very interesting concept to help us understand better the lifestyle  Continue reading “The submissive way”