Keep calm and walk her

For my regular readers this post’s title is quite straight forward. For those who read me first time it might sound puzzling if you are not into petplay. I am really fond of petplay and mostly into puppy play. I love to see my sub as my pet, with a collar, a leash and even a nice tail though I am not into furries.  There is a strange way this works inside me and actually it is in a very contradicting way which I will explain below. Continue reading “Keep calm and walk her”

Happy Kinky 2017

Hello everyone, my best wishes for a great 2017 and even more for a real kinky and exciting 2017. As the year starts we all set some goals personal and professional. It is a new start of 365 new opportunities until the end of the year and same as with everything new we need to take things slowly in order to make steady steps on the effort to achieve every single of our goals.  Continue reading “Happy Kinky 2017”

Is BDSM Deviant?

BDSM is a taboo in our society all over the world. No matter what the cultural background is and which side of the planet you come from you will agree on the previous statement. My feeling is mostly because BDSM is categorised as deviant, pervert and sick. Quite frankly I find a lot more pervert a sick to have sex on the same way every single time with the same woman to the point that I find no longer interest in getting sexual but still claim I have a happy healthy life. What most people miss in my own opinion is that sex mostly is mental the then physical Continue reading “Is BDSM Deviant?”

My Domination and Submission Anniversary

Hello everyone, just realised (thanks to a wordpress message) that my blog is up and running for the past 4 years. It was somewhere around this time when I started it and quite honestly I didn’t expect to keep going for all this time. Even if the past couple of years my updates are only a few I keep reading my emails, the comments made and get back to you Continue reading “My Domination and Submission Anniversary”

My Fetlife Account

It appears that once again fetlife decided to suspend my account. They don’t like the idea I am one who keeps not posting his cock in his pictures. Unless they can claim I am the only person posting pictures from the web that are not mine I can’t see why they do this. In any case for my fet is not working. I can’t relate with most of the people over there as my understanding of the lifestyle is something a lot different. I don’t know if other manage to get to find what they are looking for but I am not.

I don’t think I will get back on fet again. It makes no sense to be there. I might be looking for a sub, for a relationship but I know I won’t find it there.

Training a new submissive

Lot of people are talking about training. A term that all my regular readers know I don’t feel is proper nor applicable when it comes to a lifestyle. However I will use it today for the sake of building a common ground of understanding with anyone reading this article. When it comes the moment to match with a new submissive in your life there are two possibilities. The one is dealing with an inexperienced or moderately experienced individual or with a vastly experienced submissive. Having the same approach in both situations is not ideal and  Continue reading “Training a new submissive”