Seeking a female submissive and a relationship

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As I mentioned in my previous post I am out of a long term relationship which didn’t work as I expected. This is a chapter of my life which is closed for good now and the time to move on has come. So what is next? A new submissive in my life is what I expect to find and start fresh. I am not looking for just a play partner but one that will have the potential to turn into a relationship. Continue reading “Seeking a female submissive and a relationship”

Domination submission control

Domination and submission is not something like a game or a role play to get into it whenever you want it. I strongly believe this is a matter of personality which you can never get out of it as it is your own nature. A lot of people might think that D/s is something for the bed but they are missing that Domination and submission is first and foremost a mental status from which a lot of things may come into reality to spice up our life. Continue reading “Domination submission control”

How I see BDSM and a bit about Me

It has been a while now that I was thinking to add a new article about the way I see BDSM as also include a few things about myself. It is more a collection of different thoughts that I feel the need to share and usually this blog is my way to do it since 2013. BDSM after all is not a subject we can easily and openly discuss with everyone in our vanilla life and our daily social circles. So what is really BDSM and why do I find it so important for my sexual life? Is it only sex or more? Continue reading “How I see BDSM and a bit about Me”

It is Sexy, It is Sensual

Submission is a subject one can look from many different point of views and one of them is in Bed. It is a fact that many people who hate being told what to do in their ordinary life when it comes to sex they find that being dominated is a turn on for them. They find that being told what to do, how to do it, giving out control triggers their sexuality and drives it to the highest levels. For those who are not 24/7  into D/s I must say It’s possible to have a perfectly ordinary, loving relationship and also play with submission in bed. Don’t be afraid Continue reading “It is Sexy, It is Sensual”

Domination and Submission Discussion

Domination and submission is a behavior and a mindset that builds a certain dynamic in a relationship between partners. What many fail to understand is the possibility of not being sexual at all though usually the partners seek sexual pleasure through the practice. D/s is one aspect of the wider category of BDSM (Bondage and Discipline, Domination and Submission, and Sadomasochism) however some people are into all of the things listed under the term BDSM, and some only in some of them. D/s is generally distinguished from SM because it is more about power exchange. It is more mental than physical. Continue reading “Domination and Submission Discussion”