It is Sexy, It is Sensual

Submission is a subject one can look from many different point of views and one of them is in Bed. It is a fact that many people who hate being told what to do in their ordinary life when it comes to sex they find that being dominated is a turn on for them. They find that being told what to do, how to do it, giving out control triggers their sexuality and drives it to the highest levels. For those who are not 24/7  into D/s I must say It’s possible to have a perfectly ordinary, loving relationship and also play with submission in bed. Don’t be afraid Continue reading “It is Sexy, It is Sensual”

Domination and Submission Discussion

Domination and submission is a behavior and a mindset that builds a certain dynamic in a relationship between partners. What many fail to understand is the possibility of not being sexual at all though usually the partners seek sexual pleasure through the practice. D/s is one aspect of the wider category of BDSM (Bondage and Discipline, Domination and Submission, and Sadomasochism) however some people are into all of the things listed under the term BDSM, and some only in some of them. D/s is generally distinguished from SM because it is more about power exchange. It is more mental than physical. Continue reading “Domination and Submission Discussion”

Submissive or Girlfriend?

I believe the answer in this question is mostly personal interpretation and not a subject of some rule or “lifestyle must”. However I do believe there is a great misunderstanding which I would like to explain. Apparently my approach is based on my personal preference which can be simply described by submissive girlfriend.  Continue reading “Submissive or Girlfriend?”

Does a Dominant grows more dominative?

Recently I’ve been involved in a discussion coming from a submissive questioning if she should expect a Dom to become more dominative when their relationship becomes stronger or it makes more sense he will get softer. It is indeed a valid question and I find the topic really interesting so I thought to post an article  Continue reading “Does a Dominant grows more dominative?”

The submissive way

Recently I was reading an article of a a submissive talking about her thoughts regarding a Dom who most likely is shy or at least appears as one. What she was saying is that she will go for him and make the first move if she has to but questioned if this is truly the submissive way. Now I think this is a very interesting concept to help us understand better the lifestyle  Continue reading “The submissive way”

Knowledge is Key to play Safe

Being into BDSM there are plenty of different “plays” that you might like to get involved with. As I say the lifestyle can be mental, physical or both so whatever you like to get involved with there is a big requirement of knowledge in order to play safe. Doing the x what impact has to your partners body and the z what impact is going to have to their mental-emotional status? So let us check a “map”  Continue reading “Knowledge is Key to play Safe”