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That could easily be the title of the second edition of my eBook. I can actually write thousands of words on this subject but I will remain for now on some simple explanations.

So yes submission is dedication. You need to be very decisive in order to submit your mind soul and body to another person. To surrender and trust he won’t hurt you in any possible way. Once you get through that step then you need to dedicate yourife to that person knowing this is the best way to build a steady and strong bond. The more that person knows who you are the better will take care of your needs to provide you with happiness. Those needs are not only sexual indeed. There are needs beyond sex, more on a sentimental level.

The Dom or Master if you wish needs to get in your head same as you need to get in his head therefore he MUST dedicate himself to you as well. He wants you exclusively and you want him the same way.

The more you offer yourselves to each other to better you learn with you are dealing with. The more knowledge you have for each other the better you build a good relationshil with clear boundaries and limits that need be respected by both sides but mostly from the Dom.

To achieve all these you need love. How will you make it to make happy each other without love? How will you dedicate yourself, your life to one person without loving that person? Success is a matter of love. In business we say we need to love our work in orfer to be successful. Imagine then how much more important is in our personal life the presence of love.

How a Master will dominate his submissive without love? When you dominate then you need to care for her best interest. You need care for her happiness and wellbeing. She is a person, a soul that craves to be caressed by your choices,your touch. Be honest with her and love her.

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