hey, i was going through ur posts, and…well, about the story and all, im really not sure how you plan to do it, but from what i have seen, some bdsm sites have this and it is full of fantasizing and erotica stories to jerk off and i personally dont like such things, so, i’m not sure if this is how you want to make it, but on the other hand, your blog is yours and u post for bdsm readers not a community for bdsm fans, so, i’m really not sure if your readers will react the same way and open up to write stories, but anyhow, it is not a bad idea.
about your type of girl, i would say that it is not far fetched, i’m sure you will find the right one just in time, between you and me, i felt like you were describing me 😉 too bad that we are so far apart, and well, our age is not a good combination, i am also looking for someone who shares similar perspectives about the vanilla and bdsm balance, it is hard, but not impossible, so of course, you are not asking for alot. specially if you search for someone around your age, surely an experienced middle aged sub who shares your perspective will come your way.
it’s me who has a long way till i find the guy i want, because i want him young and mature even though i know a dom with such ideas can only be at his 40’s. so, rest assure that you will find the one, maybe it will take you some time, but it will happen.