A couple of days ago I received an email from a submissive female from the Arab world. A muslim girl who wishes to live the lifestyle. I thought a lot if I should include all of her words as some of them might be considered by some people as racist or anything similar. In fact in the first place I let her know I will publish only some parts of her mail to avoid anyone take it the wrong way. Then…….. why on earth would I like to stop someone by expressing her thoughts? Who Am I to alter her wording or decide what is proper and not proper? After all, Internet is supposed to be a place of information with freedom of speech, not a place where anything politically incorrect will be blocked. To be honest I believe our world was a lot better before we invent that “politically correct” mentality but anyway. This woman is sharing some of her experience and express her own feelings regarding a world that is mostly unknown to many of us. We might have an Idea or personal opinions about it but for sure we do not have the experience. I want to make clear, what follows are the thoughts of the person who got in touch with me and NOT MINE. I publish them because if only 10% of it is exactly the way described some need to learn and be warned. By publishing her email it doesn’t mean I fully accept what she say nor that I by any means try to support racist ideas or hate against different cultures. I do not and honestly I believe she means no harm, only to warn people through her own experiences. Read it, you will find out a different world in front of you:
Hi, i have read some of your posts, its great to know that some real masters do exist. i really don’t know if it would matter to you or not, but i am in middle east, and the idea of BDSM is perceived badly in the society, well, much worse than any other place, they think BDSM is just Sadism and Masochism and some sort of sickness and abuse. as much secretive as it should be, the only place for BDSM fans to gather is online social networks such as Fetlife and Collarme, but the more shocking truth is that, those in middle east – considering that i want a Dom or Master in the same area- only think of BDSM as abusing the woman violently, whipping her, bleeding her, a house maid, their dog, and a sex toy for a one night stand. and they are the most disrespectful when i receive their msgs, and they directly say something like ” i will whip you until you bleed” or “i will fuck you hard” or “bitch show respect” or “what is your price” and surprisingly enough, they are all ARABS, and Muslims (so they say). I’m not saying that true masters don’t exist there, but seeing how it is, it is total disappointment. I’m not asking you to post anything about this matter, I simply wish to discuss the problems I encountered, at least maybe knowing about it could be useful to you or your readers.
the main problem is that ARABS in any country are like that, be it in New York, London, Tokyo , etc. they have the same mentality, they approach and talk as someone from a western country, and then it unfolds that they approached me because I am in middle east (as it says on my profile) and they want to have an Arab “Cam slave”. I am also ARAB but it is a shame to see how other Arabs think of BDSM. total disgrace.
then comes the other problem, maybe you already know about this that Muslims shouldn’t engage in premarital relations, but the fact is, most of them if not all of them, do it. so, even if they encounter a Muslim girl on these sites, they expect her to be a bitch and do it also. even if she is just trying to learn more about BDSM (which is my case).
there are also other older men (very few) in the area, above 40, who are experienced Masters when they were in their countries (western countries) and now they live in middle east without much activity in the area, because it is not a good idea to be careless here considering it is an Islamic country, but there is only enough chance to be friends with them, and learn from their experience. so, still no room to find the right Master.
and the other thing is that I have found many guys or BOYS, around 19 or mid 20’s who say they are “Expert Masters” , which is a funny idea to me, because i don’t know how a person this young can be an expert, when all they talk about is wanting “Cam slave”.
I hope to know what you think about my msg.
Thanks for reading!