Checking the search engine terms that visitors use to find my blog I noticed this one “how initiate submissive ideas on her”. In my opinion if a person has no natural urges towards submission or BDSM in general there is no way to make it happen. I have to admit there are many out there who actually have such an urge but they can not understand it. Are you so sure you can read them so well? A submissive or Dominating mentality has to be evolved on its own and not forced into it.