In my world of BDSM the female body is a lot more than just flesh and sex
In my world of BDSM the female body is a lot more than just flesh and sex

Many times i notice that people join the BDSM lifestyle with the thought of a way to get easy sex, with the feeling they will find one to do for them all those things their girlfriends would never do. I am really annoyed that people believe that BDSM is all about sex, that a sub or a Master does everything with ultimate goal the sex. No, BDSM is not about sex and for sure not in my BDSM world. This lifestyle is a way to create relationships and as in any relationship in any lifestyle, sex is part of it but not the main goal.

Looking at a nicely shaped nude female body all a Man and a Master can see is the absolute beauty of nature. Nature…….. that is what a Master try to Dominate, to conquer. I personally love a natural body with all its small or big imperfections. As  i believe perfection can be found only within those imperfections, it is something strange indeed, but this is how it works. I don’t like silicon implants, piercings, tattoos or any other kind of body modifications. I feel it is insane to twist our body, our nature. On the other hand i am a big fan of all those little gadgets women have in their disposal to make them look more tempting, lipsticks,stockings,lace,nylons etc.

Back to the matter of nature, as I said, a Master what really want to Dominate is everything that includes the word woman. Her body, her spirit, her mind, her heart and soul, in my world I need to Dominate all of those elements to feel complete and i am sure somehow that gives the same feeling to my slave or sub. One, to achieve something like that, needs to be an “artist” not a beast.

So in conclusion, the female body in my world is a lot more than flesh as i explained above, is a lot more than something to wake up my urges, my sexual desires only, but it is the reason to live, the reason to celebrate life and the reason that one day, totally naturally without even be aware of this lifestyle the Master start to grow inside me at the age of seventeen, almost 20 years ago.

The female body is the absolute instrument of beauty, the absolute expression of nature.

6 thoughts on “The female body in my BDSM world. Just a body, something to wake up my urges or a lot more than that?

  1. “Looking at a nicely shaped nude female body all a Man and a Master can see is the absolute beauty of nature. Nature…….. that is what a Master try to Dominate, to conquer. I personally love a natural body with all its small or big imperfections.”
    Love this.

    I’ve noticed that image insecurities are a concern to women when it comes to playing with new people, no matter how long they’ve known them. I am the same. And though you can be told that your imperfections are beautiful, there is some area of doubt. I don’t know why, and i find it so annoying!
    Sir & i have been together a very long time, i’m not uncomfortable with Him, but a fleeting thought will pass by if i am in a certain position, I’ve had two (big) babies, my body isn’t what it used to be. As for other partners, hm, i’d hope my brain was completely overwhelmed with other great thoughts, enough not to worry about it.

    Women ay, pfft.
    Lol

    Great post!
    -RR Blondie

    1. Hello and thank you

      My dear your body might have changed but what He sees when he looks at you is something you can not understand maybe.
      A nicely shaped female body as I have it in my mind does not mean the skinny figure mass media and other beauty magazines try to push in our heads. As the lyrics of a song I love say, “don’t read to beauty magazines, they will only make you feel ugly”.
      A well shaped body, male or female, in my point of view is the one with harmony. Yes I admit over weight is not the best but I have seen many women in my life that are perfectly cuties and there is no way to call them slim or slender.
      I always say to people I know, if YOU don’t feel nice with your body work out to change it but make sure it is YOU. It is not you because you feel others don’t like it, it is not you because you have an influence from the mass media it is you because it is YOU (if that makes sense as an expression).
      I am quite sure your Master loves your body even if it was changed through the years. To be fair, we all change with the years and that is why a lot more things are a lot more important than just our bodies.

  2. ’’The female body is the absolute instrument of beauty, the absolute expression of nature’’ – I could use this as a signature line everywhere. 🙂
    I just wish my writing skills were as good as yours.
    Your post above is one of the best I’ve ever read. I think the same as you on almost every point. And I still keep wondering why are women so insecure about their own bodies. Sexuality aside, female body is a work of art.

    1. Hello Shy (are you really shy 😉 ? )
      Thank you for your comment but I do not really feel I am that good in expressing my thoughts. You see English is not my native therefore most of the times I end up with the feeling I missed to “transmit” my thoughts the way they are. Whatsoever, comments such as yours help me build my confidence that people do understand what I want to talk about a lot better than what I anticipate.

    2. Hi again,
      I am not shy… 🙂 I just loved the ‘’Shy Dominant’’ combination in the same sentence. But I am reserved and quiet, discrete person.
      You do good job writing. I am not native English speaker myself, so I understand even better.

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