My e-book brief pre-view

As you know I am working on moving to my own Domain and publish an e-book by the end of the month. I decided to share with a brief pre-view and that will be the title and the Introduction. So here you are, the book title will be  “Sinfull Desires & Sweet Love, A BDSM guide by Master P”

Here follows the Introduction. If you are interested to have the e-book earlier than any-one else, please follow this link Continue reading

E-book additional content

I thought to let you know about the additional content you will find in my upcoming e-book. In addition to the blog content you will find chapters on how to use nipple clamps,pussy clamps, how to use whips and what differences according to their types, what to have in mind when using ropes, how to take some basic security measure, a fee thoughts regarding religions and the lifestyle,how to enjoy in secret the lifestyle when in public, an approach and thoughts in livinv the lifestyle when married with kids. There might be a few more that i haven’t decided yet if i want to add them in this first release that is actually a pre-release of my full book. For those interested to have it even a week before the official release please follow menu link to the e-book to register your e-mail.

New Website and e-book release

As you know soon I will start using my own domain and keep working on sharing information regarding the BDSM lifestyle (Both the blog and the new website will be on-line). Before the end of the month the new website will be on-line and together will come my first ever release of my upcoming e-book. All the information from the blog with additional content will be available to you for downloading both on my new website and Amazon. Soon I will share more details. For now, all of you interested in my e-book feel free to subscribe here so I will be able to provide you with the link even a week before it is announced in public.  Thank you all for your support all those years

 

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The Secretary – A BDSM movie

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Many people learned about the lifestyle because of the 50 shades and in fact consider everything in that book how the real life experience is. Before that book there was a movie in 2002 that is simply amazing and according to my opinion describes the lifestyle a lot better. The secretary. The link will send you to IMDB though I will include some information here as well. James Spader is the Dom of the story named….. GREY!!!! Hey does this sound familiar? Is it a coincidence? His acting is brilliant same as Maggie Gyllenhaal in the role of the submissive. Steven Shainberg, the producer, stated that he wished to show that BDSM relationships can be normal and was inspired by the film My Beautiful Laundrette, which he feels normalized gay relationships for audiences in the 1980s Continue reading

Should we be SSC or RACK? Maybe both or not?

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This is an article that those new within the lifestyle might not be aware of the meaning of the two abbreviations SSC and RACK. So let me start by explaining of the meaning. SSC is Safe, Sane and Consensual when RACK stands for Risk Aware Consensual Kink. On a first glance they both seem to be a way to secure both sides enjoy what is going on during a scene and in fact it is this way. Consensual is a word included in both the abbreviations. In my own opinion they stand for two different philosophies and is not the same. Historically speaking SSC was the first and dominating mantra for years until RACK came in the scene to express something completely different. Before I explain more I would love to state that I believe in SSC and I find RACK dangerous.  Continue reading

This is what the lifestyle is about

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Me and my submissive love to look on pictures and share our thoughts and feelings about them. It is a way to find out a lot about each other and explore feelings, desires and imagination (I suggest you to try it some time). Recently I found that one and when I asked her to tell me what she thinks her answer was “this is what the lifestyle is about” and started to explain me why she feels this way. After her explanation I thought this is something to be shared with all who wish to learn about BDSM. Continue reading

Nature v. Nurture? – Embracing The World of Power Exchange

Nature v. Nurture? – Embracing The World of Power Exchange. A great articke that comes to add a lot to my previous update advice regarding a relationship between a new Master and an experienced submissive. I strongly advice you to read it.

New Master and experienced submissive

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As you know since yesterday there was a very good reason I haven’t update my blog for so long. I find it natural when you find exactly what you were dreaming in all your life to place everything on hold for some time and dedicate your self there. Anyway my desire to keep this blog running is still here as also to publish my own book. I was thinking what might be my next post and as I decided to check my emails today (for first time after a month or more) I found a very interesting mail. A new Master had an offer from an experienced submissive to be collared by Him. She is giving him this gift of submitting her mind, body and soul but He feels a bit stressed out on what to do therefore he reached out to me asking for an advice. He also mentioned he would like to find a mentor.  Continue reading

Total control BDSM needs balance

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A subject many times discussed and loved by many in the lifestyle. Total control!! My question is how total the total control should be? Should we keep some balance between control and freedom of choice? I’ve heard a lot of times people enjoy having the control of their sub life as also submissives enjoy being under such control. I also know that some or many of them are into it so deep that actually the submissive is making no choices at all during her day. I have to admit that I love it too. I am into it and the more I get the more I want but I always believed there should be some balance. Why? Continue reading

Clamps, Clothespins and other similar toys

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So you want to play and sexually torture your partner. Clamps and clothespins is something that may easily come  to your mind since it is so often portrayed in many media. WARNING!!!! Pregnant women should avoid this type of play as it can cause uterine contractions or induce early labor in the last trimester. You might believe this is not such a dangerous play and safety issues are not that sensitive. Trust me when I say this is totally wrong. Safety is the first to consider in anything you practise no matter how innocent it appears to be or not. First and foremost, you know well that  the basis of all BDSM play is SSC (Safe, Sane and Consensual). Many will say that generally it is the Dom’s responsibility to maintain safety during a scene, but I would like to add my opinion according to which  it is equally up to the submissive to know and understand different play styles and safety considerations, before consenting to a scene. Continue reading